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Roscoe's avatar

That is really effed up they would bring up your work while you were fresh out of surgery. I did initially read it wrong thinking staff had done this- which would've been much worse than a roommate doing this.but it's still kind of bizarre anyone - even non staff would think you were up for debate fresh out of surgery

Saucer plate's avatar

Still more! Please, Dear Naomi, please tell us more.

🙏💗💗💗🙏

Tina's avatar

OH MY GOD! I hope and pray you came out of that in good shape!!!! The story of your experience up to that point was a cliff hanger anyway! Now we have to wait (and pray) for your next installment! I hope God spared you from anymore trauma (or nosey roommates) take care of yourself and we will see you on the other side!!!

Linda Bartlett's avatar

A cliffhanger! Looking forward to part 2. God Bless

Mary Stanton's avatar

Thank you for sharing and glad to see you back on the printed page. As I was reading your journey I was thinking about my great experience with my hip replacement 3 years ago (in Florida) Wow -at first I thought Naomi got that great post op feeling of no pain!It is really something after years of limping around bone on bone. Then the bad roommate entered the story.....uh oh!!! OK I confess I had somehow scored a wonderful private room which is sooo relaxing ..... and had fabulous nurses as well. Prayers for you !! Looking forward to the next chapter!

Sharon Beautiful Evening's avatar

WOW--a real "cliff hanger" for your Part 1 essay, Dr. Naomi!!

But...we know you survived this latest medical ordeal because you are writing about it - in your glorious, descriptive style.

JEHOVAH JIREH...He HAS, He DOES, He SHALL!

CyberNan's avatar

I am absolutely incensed after reading this. As angry as if I was your Mother or sister! So much to say and so many feelings that I need to hold my tongue. Get better my friend ♥️♥️

cgg's avatar

Given your roommate's background in healthcare, she should have known that post-OP, people need REST. How many TV shows show medical personnel kicking out anyone who is upsetting a patient because it affects recovery? Shame on her. Really. Shame. On. Her.

Rochelle Daly's avatar

I’m so sorry you had such a terrifying experience, and that your roommate did not respect your desire to not engage in the conversation she seemed insistent upon pursuing.It is obvious from your essay that your words have returned, for which I am genuinely grateful. Looking forward to the next installment of your story

John Stalmach's avatar

I have missed your posts recently; I had no idea the reason why. If I had, I certainly would have been praying for you; I have already prayed this morning, and will continue.

Your experience with your "room mate" emphasized why we all need an advocate with us when we undergo any kind of major procedure. When I had my left knee replaced more than 13 years ago, there were a series of errors, to the point that my second wife, who was a retired medical social worker stepped in and asked to see an administrator. I was not privy to that conversation, but things changed rapidly after.

God bless you, and I look forward to Part 2.

Deborah R McAllister's avatar

I'm so sorry to hear about this recent horrible experience. I'm praying for complete recovery for you in all ways.

john robinson's avatar

Thank you for outlining and detailing your medical journey in your continuing search for optimal health. At some point in this series I'm sure we'll be treated to your perspective on the thoughts and philosophies behind the organizations, and individual characters involved in your pursuit of wellness. It is from this backdrop of structurallly compelled motivation that I think we'll find some of the roots of our discontent. I look forward to installments to follow.

Anyway, the mentioning of Sloan-Kettering caused me to wonder whether you and or your readers understand who Mr.Sloan and Mr. Kettering were and why their names might be attached to a place of healing. "American Poison" by Daniel Stone (linked) lays out in considerable detail exactly what these two men are doing in our vernacular and points to questions regarding whether they belong among the elevated.

I found the book description in the Penguin link below to be the best.

I wish you all the best Naomi and hope you feel better soon.

https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/724815/american-poison-by-daniel-stone/#:~:text=“American%20Poison%20brings%20to%20brilliant,can%20truly%20make%20a%20difference.”

Dr Naomi Wolf's avatar

I cannot wait to read this. I certainly don't mention MSK because I support its methodologies -- only because they store autologous blood. Thank you for this recommendation. Understanding how cancer treatment in America came to be the way it is is a huge missing piece of the puzzle for me.

Dr Naomi Wolf's avatar

I see it is about gasoline....do Sloan and Kettering feature in that story too?

alison's avatar

Naomi, I can't thank you enough for this total description of your experience with the compliance issues of consent. The details are important to hear from many individuals in the many different settings one may find themselves within this confounding maze. The "in-charge" individuals will have their mannerisms to assure you that your concerns are respected. In your case, I'll bet they figured it was better not to cross the line. I'm relieved to hear that part worked in your favor. Everyone reading this take note of the power you have.

The woman who pestered you about the validity of findings in the Pfizer Papers definitely crossed the line. She interfered with your healing; your body responded and sent the signals of danger present. This is very helpful to understand for me, and I hope others reading your experience. Find a way to protect your personal space. I wish Bryan had been by your side to make the woman back off.

Prayers for your complete recovery and your body and spirit unite in healing.

Barbara's avatar

WOW!!!!!!!!!! Your work is not finished here…and I don’t just mean the essay. 🌸🌺🌸

ddc's avatar

I was wondering where you were. Not the fodder for engrossing stories that you would want. Thank you for sharing.

Sue's avatar

Wish I had known you needed surgery, but maybe remember this for later. Europe is much farther advanced in medical practices than we in the States. Germany has a product call chondro-gel that regrows cartilage, with a little stem cell help. For around $3k I'm told you can get a procedure done there, go on vacation for a bit and save most of what you would have spent here. They also allow peptide therapy in most places, some Rx, whereas here RFK is still fighting the FDA to get a dozen or so moved back to the "ok to compound" list.

Well, I wish you a speedy and complete recovery!

Dr Naomi Wolf's avatar

Wow, I had no idea. Thank you!