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Curtis's avatar

I've long had an appreciation of Victorian culture, and especially architecture, but as I've gotten older, wiser and sadder, I've accepted the fact that humanity has been corrupt since time began. Victorian England was a hotbed of evil where children were used by the elite for sex and slave labor, and the poor were forced to live in poverty and squalor. The Irish were left to starve to death while England took the vast majority of the food that was produced for export.

Nothing has changed, and it never will, but each of us have the obligation to soldier on and fight the good fight regardless. You, Naomi, are a true warrior, and I thank you for that.

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Regarding the size of Victorian houses, I have wondered if they were large because they were often multi-generational residences. When children grew up and married, they lived in the house, had children and took care of their aging parents. There was no assisted living and "a place for Mom" was with her family in the family home. Sometimes extended family members lived there too.

I spend my childhood summers at my grandmother's Victorian home in the south. She had a large porch; actually the best porch in the neighborhood. Porches were used. Because she had the best porch and the most rockers, friends and neighbors came over every afternoon and visited on the porch. Porch-sitting was a daily ritual during the summer. The doors to the house were unlocked at 6 a.m. every morning and friends just walked in and out of the house all day. My grandmother had a lot of friends. Do you think houses designed and built during those years created opportunities for stronger families and better neighborhood friendships? Sometimes I think so. My experience was unusually enriching. I look back on those times and those people with a deep longing and profound appreciation. All the houses except two have been torn down.

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