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theirs. I sent them ONE article about the shots for infants and toddlers and how thorough testing/trials have not been done (basically YOUR kids are the trials) and another one about VAERS related to the shots. More specifically, a study of several patients that developed optic nerve damage from the severe headaches caused by the shots.

I was soundly scolded by my son in law. He was severely insulted by this because he himself has had the discovery made by a specialist, and has had MRI of the brain, with findings to grey matter. He is also Dx with the optic nerve damage.

He called me childish (?) and stated that if I sent them any more information (just two informative studies, reports over the past two years) our "relationship would be over"

I emailed him back and told him he was behaving rather harsh. He then stated that they were considering banning us from seeing the grand babies.

Then in a later email, my son in law said we are permanently banished.

It hurts.

Days after that entire dramatic episode (last week Monday or maybe it was the Sunday the 22?) on the 25th, I underwent major abdominal surgery, (hysterectomy to be precise), so it was sad that I did not have my daughters (either of them) loving support. It hurts my heart.

Today, I am coping. I have not heard anything from any of my daughters.

It has been over a week. In a pitiful sort of way, I feel okay. I am not missing them, I am not missing the adorable grand babies either. Maybe it is just my own completely normal post operative emotional state.

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I am so, so, sorry Rosemary! How are you feeling? How is your recovery going?

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Thank you Shari. My recovery is okay. Perhaps the absence of the triggered family members is a good thing. I was able to focus on eating properly and spending much more time with my hubbs. Also, I am taking care of my daddy (98) and he likes to go to the gym and ride the bikes. My surgeon gave me the okay to do that now.

Again, thank you sincerely for your caring statement

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You are most welcome, Rosemary. Take care of yourself. Allow the healing to come.

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Could be the elimination of stress. I havenтАЩt seen or spoken to my daughter, grandson or son in law for 5 years now. Emotionally up & down, however so calm now. Abuse comes in many ways.

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thank you for sharing this. We do not do this kind of "shit" in my family, but my younger daughter's hubb does. His parents are also shunned. I like his mom and dad so we do text about the drama. I do believe the roots are buried in his family.

Anyway, I am sure my daughter is suffering. My older daughter chose not to get involved, but she has not been supportive or helpful. That is okay. They are both in their 30's and hubbs and I are doing just fine. You are most likely SPOT ON, that it is the elimination of the stress. Fortunately, I have a life, and friends and piles of fun taking care of my old daddy 98 yo.

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